Pretending

“Pretending – to speak and act so as to make it appear that something is the case when in fact it is not.”

Pretending can be a fun child’s game – I’m a pirate, a superhero, a puppy, or a princess.

Pretending can be an effective technique in grown up situations – I’m helpful, supportive, kind, or compassionate.

Pretending can be a useful strategy in shared, corporate, or multi-layered conditions – I understand our unique positions, I’m a team player in it for the greater good.

Pretending can be a good smoke screen when critical weighty questions or concerns are in play – I understand the concern, can I get back to you – this is important, let’s not rush it.

Pretending can be a go-to posture when beliefs, faith, or principles are on display – I care, I’ll pray, I’ll share, or I’ll forgive.

But, pretending DOES NOT LAST – pretending will come to an end – reality always surfaces – at that point, we will all be laid bare, exposed as our true selves – and the only thing that will matter is who we really are – for better or for worse.